Best Man/Bachelor Party

**jim5cents** · 01-18-2011, 11:22 AM

This year, I have the pleasure of being the best man in not 1, but 2 weddings. The two grooms in these cases are very different, 1 being a party boy and the other a lot more laid back and low key.

For the party boy, I have already got a block of rooms reserved for Atlantic City and am familar with drill, booze, chicks, gambling, cigars, firetrucks, and so on. What I am looking for is whether anyone as any good ideas on how to keep things on the classy side of sleezy and not frat boyish.

In the second case, the groom is my stepbrother and hookers/strippers really isn't his thing. The idea I've kicked around is getting a limo/party bus and heading to Mohican Sun (preferably) or Foxwoods in CT for gambling, a show, hopefully a MMA or boxing fight. What I am looking for in this case is classy all the way.

Any suggestions?

**joz** · 01-18-2011, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by jim5cents

What I am looking for is whether anyone as any good ideas on how to keep things on the classy side of sleezy and not frat boyish.

Suit and ties. Liquor instead of beer. Don't invite frat boys. Have some nice cigars and card games.

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Originally Posted by JIM

In the second case, the groom is my stepbrother and hookers/strippers really isn't his thing. The idea I've kicked around is getting a limo/party bus and heading to Mohican Sun (preferably) or Foxwoods in CT for gambling, a show, hopefully a MMA or boxing fight. What I am looking for in this case is classy all the way.

sounds good to me all ready.

**Kong** · 01-18-2011, 05:15 PM

Firetruck?

**RU Joe** · 01-18-2011, 06:25 PM

Are the cigars 'dipped?' -

Sorry, couldn't resist.
They're only cigars, after all.

How to keep it sexy yet not sleazy? - BURLESQUE!

**Kugyince** · 01-18-2011, 08:05 PM

Actually JG, a burlesque show is an excellent idea.

**Dudebro** · 01-18-2011, 08:34 PM

Hell yeah it is, can I go?

**jim5cents** · 01-18-2011, 10:24 PM

Burlesque is a pretty sweet idea. I suppose I should make it clear. If the line is sleezy, I want it to be a millimeter on the classy side, and not the frat boy, binge drinking/keg stand line. Not wayyyyy over on the classy side.

I'm also thinking of good ways to humilate the groom all night. The first idea I've got is a glass my gf found in a sex toy brochure. It is a cup with a dick in the middle of it and duck tape that bad boy to his hand all night.

**RU Joe** · 01-18-2011, 10:52 PM

Those are scary looking - does the drink come into physical contact with the plastic dink?
{Mmmmmm, alcohol and plastic!} -

I think ice cubes are better.
Give him a short glass so the ice dink is sticking out of his glass.

**Kong** · 01-18-2011, 11:54 PM

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firetrucks

What does that mean?

Maybe something more adventuresque instead of wild party.

Like paintball, hangglidding, jet skiing, parachuting, hot air balloon, bungie jumping etc.

Not sure how many people or how much money you are going to have for this but a hot air balloon, stripper and booze sounds like a pretty good going away party

I mean bachelor party.

**joz** · 01-19-2011, 08:15 AM

Donkey shows with midgets are always fun!

**jim5cents** · 01-19-2011, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Kong

Originally Posted by jim5cents

firetrucks
Firetrucks? What does that mean?

It is a reference to the Tom Hanks movie, Bachelor Party.

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Not sure how many people or how much money you are going to have for this but a hot air balloon, stripper and booze sounds like a pretty good going away party

I mean bachelor party

The budget I personnally have on this 1,000. That is the amount I'm willing to spend and that includes airfare and hotel.
The number of people is an issue. Because the bride didn't want to slight any of her friends, she has a huge bridal party and as result, the groom has a huge party. At least a dozen of other people are also interested in attending, putting our group number up to about 25.